by Rev. Michael Heath | Mar 19, 2017
In continuing our theme of improving communication skills, we come to the third axis of the Myers-Briggs Personality Type Indicator scheme: Thinking (T) and Feeling (F). T/F is the only indicator in which gender seems to be determinative. 75% of men are Ts and 75%...
by Rev. Michael Heath | Mar 4, 2017
Another common communication snag results from personality-style clashes which Myers – Briggs classifies as iNtuitives (N) and Sensors (S). Briefly, Intuitives are folks who think in abstractions and generalities and anticipate and plan for the future. They see...
by Rev. Michael Heath | Feb 21, 2017
A common communication problem arises when unaware extrovert talks to an unaware introvert. Neuroscience has revealed that there are organic differences in the way information is processed in the brain which can result in communication problems and misunderstandings....
by Rev. Michael Heath | Feb 3, 2017
As Valentine’s Day approaches, our thoughts turn to love. Of course there are many kinds of love : The love of a parent for a child or a child for a parent; the love between brothers and sisters ; the love for family and friends. Romantic love, however, is the most...
by Rev. Michael Heath | Jan 15, 2017
It’s the new year and many of you would like to leave the old year behind. Some may be frustrated that it is hard to “let go”. One common cliche that I’m sure that you’ve seen or heard before is the one posted above. And it’s true...
by Rev. Michael Heath | Jan 2, 2017
Happy New Year! As we start the new year, many will feel the pressure to make and keep resolutions. While wanting to make changes and make improvements is a good thing, it can become a source of stress if a change is not approached realistically. The crucial factor...
by Rev. Michael Heath | Dec 17, 2016
A lot of brain research has been in the news lately but this one really is a “big deal” ! For those who have who suffer from treatment resistant depression and who maybe considering Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation (TMS) this research and, specifically,...
by Rev. Michael Heath | Dec 4, 2016
Frequently I’m asked about what a pastoral counselor is. Many folks are familiar with psychologists and social workers but pastoral counseling is less well understood. (Maybe that’s because the relative number of clinicians who have the extensive training...
by Rev. Michael Heath | Nov 23, 2016
Thanksgiving is here again and with it comes a flood of feelings and memories. This is a special and complicated celebration which congers up images of feasting and family get-togethers. Along with the delicious food and being with friends and relatives, Thanksgiving...
by Rev. Michael Heath | Nov 11, 2016
Recently, nationwide protests against president-elect Trump demonstrate that there are a lot of unhappy people in our country. This level of frustration was inevitable, no matter who won, since the campaigns were so hotly contested. When you add in the fact that the...
